A decent man with an indecent mind, searching for unforgettable experiences. 44-year-old business executive type, 6'1", 185-190 lbs, in good shape, reasonably handsome, with dark hair, hazel eyes, sensual lips, and well endowed. Very social and outgoing. An incorrigible charmer. I love music. I love listening to it, playing it, talking about it. I enjoy watching sports, and I like to stay active. I'm a runner, and I go to the gym enough that my pants still fit but not enough to have washboard abs. I like to read and my favorite drink is tequila served neat. I love sex. I'm old enough to know what I like and not be shy about it. I'm naturally dominant and I prefer to take the lead. I have a fair amount of experience with D/s and BDSM, but I don't need or expect it with every partner or in every encounter. I'm very adaptable, open-minded, non-judgmental, sexually curious, respectful of boundaries, and eager to try new things. What I don't want is a boring partner. A woman who kisses with her lips closed. Or one who just lays there like a dead fish. Or one who doesn't say a thing. Give me a girl who wants to suck the soul out of my body. A girl so overcome by arousal that she starts speaking in tongues. A girl who picks out lingerie (lace, please) expecting it will be ripped to shreds by the time we're done. Writhing, moaning, sweating, scratching, screaming, cursing. Make it hot. Make it nasty. Say "FUCK!" a few times. That's my kind of girl. Among my experiences, some of the most thrilling have been playing with married women. The husband has watched on a couple of occasions and it was incredibly erotic. I'm very familiar with the hotwife/cuckold or vixen/stag lifestyle and playing with those couples is a huge turn-on. Finally, I have a real life too, which means that I value safety and discretion, that I understand the complications of scheduling encounters, and that I won't become attached or clingy. This isn't my first rodeo. Looking forward to hearing from you.

My Ideal Person Women, single or attached, or couples. Open-minded, sexually adventurous, not boring. Body size and shape matter less than an appearance that shows you care about how you look. Women who wear lace lingerie go to the front of the list.

Give me a girl who wants to suck the soul out of my body. A girl so overcome by arousal that she starts speaking in tongues. A girl who picks out lingerie expecting it will be ripped to shreds by the time we're done. Writhing, moaning, sweating, scratching, screaming, cursing. Make it hot. Make it nasty. Say "FUCK!" a few times. That's my kind of girl.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Unsure/Prefer not to say

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