If you're a Standard member, you can reach me on the site's IM. I'm a Standard member so I can't initiate contact, so if you get "hotlisted" by me and you're interested, please IM me or email me on yh dot cum! I'm really not sure what I'm doing or how to go about this. I've never tried this kind of a website before and I'm a little nervous, but I don't know how else to find someone to help me fulfill my fantasy. I'm a straight middle-aged guy who's never been with a man before, but I've fantasized for years about sucking a guy's cock and having him suck mine. Ideally, I'd like to fulfill this fantasy as part of a MFM 3some, sucking the guy's cock either while I'm fucking his wife, girlfriend, sister, or whatever; or while she is sucking my cock, and having him suck my cock while I eat her pussy and make her scream with delight. I'd love to chat with you about all the combinations and possibilities, so if you're interested, email me or send me a message on IM!

My Ideal Person Above all, I'm looking for someone who can be VERY discrete (that's why I'm not posting a picture of my face here, but I will send you one if you tell me where to send it). You (and your woman if you're a couple) should be shaved or well trimmed, as I am (excessive body hair is a definite deal breaker). Good hygiene, safe sex practices and d/d free are a MUST. Ideally you're either new to sex with a man or to 3somes and we can experiment together; OR you're experienced and patient enough to deal with a newbie. If you're a body builder type, leather-chap-butch type, very effeminate type, or "gangsta" - any of the stereotypes you see in gay porn - please don't waste your time or mine. I'M LOOKING FOR JUST A REGULAR GUY!

Even though I'm not looking for a romance or LTR, don't expect a quick blowjob or a hit-and-run one night stand (and if that's what you're looking for, look somewhere else!). I'm not interested in just blowing random strangers just for the sake of fulfilling my fantasy. If we enjoy the experience, I'd like to make it a steady FWB arrangement. I'd love to chat with you about the possibilities, so if you're interested, I hope you'll email me or chat with me on IM.