exploring the spiritual.... finding who I am. and the purpose I'm 5'10" 205 down from 285 a year ago,that is when I began life change / life improvement. Better eating, exercise daily, trainer... looking at the beauty of life, taking stock in the wonder of the universe and all those people who happen my way.. Masters Degree technologist, who enjoys writing and looking to publish my first book in the next year. Love to write, to explore emotion with others. Here to find special people... not focused on the sexual but the per.. with the right people the physical just finds its way and can be very wondrus experiance .... I enjoy satisfying my partner ahead of my own concerns. all done with great care....

My Ideal Person Someone who "gets it" who understands an open, honest, loving caring relationship without judgement, someone who shares the understanding of communication with just staring into each others eyes, holding hands.. the amazing condition of a single soulful kiss. I would enjoy someone where touching and holding starts a cosmic connection completed by pleasure. where time is not rushed nor the superficial and the physical is important other than to be a vehicle that facilitates higher communication
Someone who can be my friend first, sharing true care and let the rest fall into place. Laid back but passionate, witty and funny, yet serious, above all with care for the situations of one another.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
while making out.. kissing, near a beach in soft grass,
sliding my hand across her chest, down her belly, under
the waistband of her shorts, then panties, until reaching
that moist area of pleasure.. that is highly erotic to me.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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