I just wanted to let everyone know that my ex passed away in mid April - so please understand if it takes me some time to respond. Am I looking for a relationship - absolutely - will I force one to happen - absolutely not - she and I will know when it is right for us and then we will go from there - but upfront I will say that if you cannot accept a single dad with two young s as a part of your life then we probably would have no future together - so please take that into consideration when you think about contacting me - I hope all of you have a wonderful day and guys I enjoy hearing from you but, honestly I am not bi or gay - we can be friends but, there would be nothing sexual so there would be nothing beyond friendship. Hi looking for new friends. Anywhere in the US is fine just want to see who is out there. I am looking for someone for more than just sex. Someone who is happy and passionate about life. I have found sex loses its luster if the peralities don't mesh. I think the best way I can sum up my views on life are like this. Many years ago on a trip to Washington DC while visiting the Smithian I bought a piece of fools gold there. On most of my trips I bought something to bring back fond memories of the trip. Most of the decorations on my Christmas tree have a story about a place I have been or an event in my life. Well, at that time I was working in corporate America and we had a visit from a and his mother the boy was very ill and he was there visiting for a few hours. He saw the rock on my desk and thought it was really cool. My heart said give it to him but my mind kept thinking of all the fond memories of the trip that rock brought to me. Well my heart won and I gave him the rock. A few months later I received a box at work. When I opened it the rock and a note were inside. The note was from his mother. He had passed away. She talked about how much joy that rock, a silly piece of fools gold, had given him and how he thought it was so cool how I just let him have it. I still have great first memories of that rock and the trip but, my second set of memories and how it made me feel about myself are so much better. I guess my point is having things is great but, in giving to others and what you get back are even better. I want to find someone who feels the same way about life.

My Ideal Person Please read above. Hi looking for new friends. Anywhere in the US is fine just want to see who is out there. I am looking for someone for more than just sex. Someone who is happy and passionate about life. I have found sex loses its luster if the personalities don't mesh. You might be only one person to the World, But to one person you might be the world.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
AC/DC, Puddle of Mudd, Evanesence, Van Halen, Aerosmith,
Linkin Park, Seether, Casting Crowns

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Kate Beckinsale and in the fantasy she really is a vampire.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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