"The continuum of sex leads to sadomasochism." Camille Paglia. I am looking for subs or sluts who want to experience pain and pleasure through BDSM. My aim is to take both of us to the shared ecstasy of sub space and dom space. BDSM is transformative. In my user name I honor the much maligned Marquis DeSade, who took to the ultimate, in his imagination, the desires we all have. I am living out some of my desires. I can help you find what you are looking for. I am a professional per who is caring and discreet. I have a playroom a la DeSade/Story of O. I am active in Lawrence, KCMO, and Oklahoma BDSM groups. My age will be a question for some of you. I assure you I am a full time practicing trial lawyer, in good health, with an interest in living life to the fullest. I have been with women of all ages. I will pleasure you.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman who is attractive, intelligent, honest and likes to have fun. She should be interested in new experiences and open to all and everything.