No one in my regular life would ever guess I'm on this site. I'm a very private per, so discretion is everything to me, but that doesn't mean I don't like having fun. Really this is so not like me to actually be on this site. There are plenty of people I can "hook up with" , I'm not opposed to that, but that's not what I found myself here for. I believe that attraction is very important. There is more involved than just physical attraction. But, lets be honest, that's usually where it begins. I’m constantly striving to know myself and to grow especially stronger mentally and physically. I particularly like people who are in touch with themselves or who want to move in that direction. If you subscribe to labels, I'm an alpha type looking for confident male.

My Ideal Person The definition of an ideal person is one that exists only in ones imagination and is not likely to become real. Well, I believe in unicorns so this is going to be GRAND! I said at first that this site is "justforfun". I've met two professionals that I know are really normal , Great people, so I guess I'm not totally given the option up to meeting someone from this site. My hope would be to meet a man that is honest, first and foremost. I love to laugh and appreciate one who has a since of humor. Age is just a number, I have no preference. I do usually prefer older men. I just love a sexy gray headed man! Oh and, Btw, I'm not a big texting person . I may jump on line for a minute, but I have a job and don't have time to chit-chat all day. I know this site has a lot of sexting going on but that does NOT mean I just here for that. I love to kiss , it's very passionate if done properly. I'm very particular,and not attracted to many people but if I put my hands on your face ... its on! Smell is another thing that is very important. I love a man that is dressed nice , fit and has this smell to him that lingers on my clothes. Please don't inbox me if you don't have a job. I'm not buying my dinner and yours. I appreciate a person who is kind. One that puts others before himself. That's really hard to find these days. A man who is Loyal... is there such ?

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Have many unfulfilled desires.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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