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if you only knew... 1/16/2005
If you only knew that almost 83% of the people on this site
is the same person would that make a difference. Her name
is Mildred Sassity. She's 53 and a librarian in Cedar
Rapids. In her spare time, she assumes the mantle of about
3, 456 different profiles and returns e-mails and makes
up these great profiles. So don't worry, you will probably
never meet Mildred anyway.
2 Comments, 448 Views,
23 Votes
,3.36 Score
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Men=Wild Animal 1/15/2005
When you think about wanting a man in your life, I suggest
that you consider the "Wild Animal" strategy
to deal with them. Think of it like this: Suppose it's
not a man that you want in your life, but a Bobcat. If you wanted
a Bobcat, you'd have to be real careful once you spotted
him. You'd make sure you had safety equipment in case
things got tricky. You'd never turn your back on it,
or ...
0 Comments, 97 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!! 1/14/2005
It's always the beautiful ONES
Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have
given me a warning or something. It's going on week
FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time
I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to.
She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene
at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was
about two ...
2 Comments, 277 Views,
20 Votes
,1.21 Score
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Ladies BEWARE of the Sexual Preditor! 1/14/2005
This is for the ladies on this site....
Please be safe and get to know someone well by email and phone
before you go out with them....
Case in point...Beware of DarylJon54....he is a sexual
preditor of the slickest kind. He will romance you with
hot lusty emails....and is VERY agressive about wanting
to make passionate love to you....he will make a date of
passion with you...and BAM!! ...
17 Comments, 668 Views,
35 Votes
,1.39 Score
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try new things.... 1/14/2005
I use to use a .357 for dating safety. That big bad boy could
drop a BBW at 75 feet. Dead in her tracks. But lately with
the new age women, I find that a taser jock strap works best.
If they want to try anything out of line, especially before
I've had a chance to ask them if they know our Lord and
Savior Jesus Christ, then I'll juice my crotch and
give 'em quite the shock. Depending on how ...
3 Comments, 171 Views,
16 Votes
,0.78 Score
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the first date first meeting 1/4/2005
when you have talked to someone online and are ready to meet
in person. meet in a public place. if they dont want to then
drop them quick. they are hiding something.
get their phone number and call it. tell them you are letting
a friend have it and his name.
try to meet somewhere where you know someone so they will
be able to keep on eye on you to see you are okay. introduce
your date ...
1 Comments, 179 Views,
33 Votes
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public 1/4/2005
Definalty a public place that you are familliar with on
the firstdate..it make you feel more secure.
Always take ur own car..this can be akward because of the
well no need to take 2 cars and waste gas or add more crap to
the air..
And well if you feel any pressure BOUNCE on home
1 Comments, 125 Views,
22 Votes
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Letting Friends Know 1/3/2005
I usually let at least three friends know when I'm going
to meet an online friend. I tell each one to call me at a different
time within a hour to two hour time frame.
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This way if things go well, I'm alone. And if things
don't go too well, I can have a drink and think about
what could have been done differently.
0 Comments, 133 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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Be safe 12/31/2004
I am extermely cautious who I date, the men I date are recommended
by friends. First time meetings are somewhat a roll of the
dice, but I'm a good judge of a person. Pepper spray
takes the fight right out of a man to give you a head start
if all else fails.
1 Comments, 159 Views,
20 Votes
,2.74 Score
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Worried about discretion 12/25/2004
I hope this place is easier to get together and find exactly
what I need. I joined my cities local singles site last year
and hooked up a couple times the first month from uncomplicated
women that sought me out. Great sex with both and I still
see one every few months. I was rather surprised but after
that the third chick that again sought me out turned out
to be a stalker and I had to get ...
0 Comments, 91 Views,
8 Votes
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WE agree 12/23/2004
After much discussion with my wife we agreed on some guidelines
if our "Date" ever happened, they seem like
words to live by...Did we miss anything?
1. Meet in a public place.
2. Always wear what they are not looking for so you can walk
away if they seem "Shady".
3. NO ..If you want you can give them the number
of a restaraunt you'll be at.
4. NEVER GO TO "THEIR" PLACE, always use a ...
5 Comments, 350 Views,
43 Votes
,3.76 Score
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Always let some one know 12/17/2004
Hi, its one thing to be spontanious and free, but its another
to play it un safe. I think its a good idea to always let someone
know where you are at all times, especially if your meeting
someone alone for the first time.
4 Comments, 154 Views,
56 Votes
,4.92 Score
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12/16/2004
If you are just starting down that road to getting to know
someone, might be advisable to give them your cell phone
number, instead of your home phone number.
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With the click of a few buttons on the internet, it becomes
very easy for someone to do a reverse number look up on a phone
directory site, and know your home address.
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Just something to think about in ...
4 Comments, 152 Views,
35 Votes
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Modern Technology and Safety 12/16/2004
Most of us today have cell phones, and we should not be afraid
to use them as a tool in keeping ourselves safe. On a first
date, especially if you have never met before, it is wise
to meet in a public place, and to also make sure someone else
knows where you are. However, you can also use your cell
phone to be even safer...have your friend call you say an
hour into the date...if all is ...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
23 Votes
,5.46 Score
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Her Choice 12/16/2004
I guess being of the OLD school I was raised to respect a females
wishes when it cam to dating. to a point i still hold true
to these values. When I feel the timing is right to ask for
a first date i always try to reasure the date that we will
meet when and where She wants to. I do this so that she will
feel as safe as possible. and I have also suggested that
she bring a friend if she ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Remember 12/14/2004
Just a quick reminder guys-this can be a fairly scary thing
for a lot of women/men. A lot of us are new to this,
Start slow-it will pay off in the end.
2 Comments, 233 Views,
45 Votes
,4.69 Score
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Background check 12/13/2004
Would you invest in a background check for someone you met
on here? It's probably best, esp. for the ladies.
<br>
http://passion.com
professional service providing background investigations
and personal profiles. Some of the information they will
check into for you - SSN, marital information, addresses,
, relatives & associates, property
deeds, bankruptcy, judgments, liens, ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
19 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Tips for meeting online, esp. for the ladies 12/13/2004
When you do decide to meet someone whose company you enjoy
online, meet in a public place and bring your friends. Your
online buddy will understand and accomodate your wishes
if they are honest about their intentions towards you.
If during the date, you decide to go somewhere else, use
your own car.
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Don't agree to hiking dates or meetings in remote areas
until you know ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
37 Votes
,4.68 Score
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Characteristics of a Psychopath 12/10/2004
Symptoms and Signals:
A psychopath will use people for excitement, to build their
self-esteem and they invariably value people in terms
of their material value (money, property, comfort, etc..).
To date there is a checklist of behavior and symptoms that
will tell you with certainty is a person is a psychopath.
These are warning signs.
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Characteristics of a Psychopath:
...
1 Comments, 199 Views,
48 Votes
,5.93 Score
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what's too much to ask? 12/1/2004
i'm having a very difficult time finding ways to bridge
the gap between flirting, building an email friendship
and simultaneously determining the safety practices
and history of the people (men) i'm communicating
with. it seems to me that meeting from an anonymous state
would make thid dialog the most obvious first steps yet
it still seems so taboo to mention, as if there's aconversation ...
3 Comments, 38 Views,
34 Votes
,2.61 Score
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If you want a date 11/30/2004
If you want to fuck me do not let the size of your cock bother
you. They all feel great and I can bet you my pussy feels great
to all of you.SO if you want the best twat going around come
and get you some
1 Comments, 148 Views,
50 Votes
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Safe Sex and AdultFriendFinder 11/29/2004
I read a story in a profile of a young Hispanic woman from
California here on AdultFriendFinder (her profile name is "justyournympho")
who said she met three men at a hotel, and then they immediately
went to the hotel room and had sex. She implied that she spoke
to these men before the hotel meeting. No mention in her
profile of condom use or meeting these guys prior to their
supposed sex encounter. In ...
2 Comments, 172 Views,
58 Votes
,8.35 Score
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keep ur head up.... 11/27/2004
I have met 30some people from this site....be sure to "make
a connection" with them, get to know how they act under
all different situations. Talk to them online and on the
phone for a while until u know them well enough to meet up.......BE
CAREFUL!!!!! Some people are really weird......just
make sure you know what your doing....
1 Comments, 156 Views,
62 Votes
,8.44 Score
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DO's for safe dating 11/25/2004
Take the time to get to know someone at first by phone is a
great way to start talk a few times then if comfortable set
up a meeting in a public place or club safety is best policy
always.
7 Comments, 107 Views,
74 Votes
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What every woman should know and practice 11/20/2004
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
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Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for the ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
42 Votes
,8.24 Score
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Survival signals for women 11/20/2004
The Gift of Fear
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and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
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By Gavin de Becker
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The following is taken from pages 210-212.
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There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated
with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be
present in every case, but if a situation has several of
these ...
1 Comments, 48 Views,
35 Votes
,7.29 Score
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Even if your married.... 11/16/2004
Even if your married try to chose some one who you know can
keep a secret. I know that I trust one of my relatives to keep
my secrets.If I go out on a date I call her and give her the
guys cell number, what we will be driving and where we will
be going. If I dont contact her in a certain amount of time,
she might think that something has happened.
Its nice to make sure things are descrete, ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
75 Votes
,9.05 Score
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lets join 11/13/2004
Hi just checking this thing really works???
2 Comments, 16 Views,
41 Votes
,4.57 Score
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I'm newly single. What to look for? 11/9/2004
I'm scared to go to bars. My girlfriend was slipped a "roofie"?
and taken back to her appartment and . They also poisened
her with terpentine in the same drink.
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It's crazy and it's scary out there. What are your suggestions???
2 Comments, 78 Views,
43 Votes
,5.50 Score
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First meetings on AdultFriendFinder 11/9/2004
Any previous experiance / hints on first time meetings
through AdultFriendFinder would be very much appreciated. Thanks.
0 Comments, 45 Views,
27 Votes
,5.03 Score
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