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Posting old photos? 6/10/2005
Posting an old photo versus no photo is understandable,
but be upfront that the photo is old. AdultFriendFinder members want to
see the current you, on your profile, not what you looked
like 5 years ago.
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Posting recent photos shows that you are honest and sincere
about meeting new friends. Posting recent photos will
help avoid uncomfortable conversations about what you
really look like. ...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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location, location, location 6/7/2005
Remember, when you have a chance for a romantic evening.
The place is half the battle. The chances of continuing
to date, have a longterm relationship or even sex can depend
on where you go. If you go somewhere quiet and somber, she
may enjoy it or she may become tired and want to end the date
sooner. An active person will appreciate an active location,
clubs for an example can be good. ...
1 Comments, 2655 Views,
103 Votes
,3.51 Score
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HOW IMPORTANT ARE LOOKS 6/4/2005
Don't get me wrong, looks do matter. A little. I've
been with hotties and not so hotties, but the sex is not always
the same. Some of my best sex has been with the no-so-hotties,
and my worst with the hotties. If the girl is good in bed,
looks don't matter as much. And sometimes the hotties
are stuck up or pruddish. This is not always the case but
just remember good looks doesn't always ...
4 Comments, 247 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Be Careful when ur out there !!! 5/28/2005
More than 1 out of every four women have been or sexually
abused....and most of the time the situations are preventable...juat
remember to take safety precautions when u are out in the
world looking for a good time ..... especially with the
recent increase in sexual crimes on women .....
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remember to...
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1. let close ppl friends/family to u know where u are going ...
0 Comments, 404 Views,
25 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Meeting Someone For The First Time 5/16/2005
Hello Everyone,
I am new to this and haven't actually followed through
with physically meeting anyone yet. My question is, what
is the safest and most preferred way to go about personally
meeting someone. Where do most people like to meet their
"friends" for the first time? At the house,
the mall, the bar?
3 Comments, 460 Views,
24 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Extreme but safe 4/30/2005
When meeting a first date that you have not shared a photo
with, try the following:
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Arrange the date at a location that is usually busy, and
which you are familiar with. Have your date describe themself
to you, what they are wearing, height, weight, hair color,
etc. Do this just prior to meeting. Tell your date to wait
30 minutes and then leave if you don't contact them. ...
1 Comments, 279 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Should you ever.... 4/28/2005
We have been invited to a few peoples houses but I never want
to go unless I already have met the person because I am afraid
of what might happen if they turn out to be nuts. Should you
ever go to someones house from AdultFriendFinder you have never met????????
3 Comments, 252 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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NAMES OF GUYS TO AVOID ON HERE AND SISITER SITES 4/14/2005
I have this evening been robbed by a man who claimed to be
a vwe blk man who lived in east london Walthamstow (obviously
a lie)Granted it was my own dam fault for trusting his no
good thieving ass but my mum passed away last week and although
chatted b4 breifly took it upon myself to trust him and was
very wrong. He also stole some of my mums items as he fooled
me into believing he would be ...
1 Comments, 328 Views,
21 Votes
,4.86 Score
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Residence 4/14/2005
This can be for ladies and gentlemen. If you have a date,
and they insist, (for some reason, ) to pick you up from
your house, trust me, it is a trap to see where you stay, and
stalk you, and/or do worse things. So, this is what I do,
I tell them okay, and guide them to at least 4 streets over.
So, that way, you know the area, but don't have to let
them know where you stay. Or, you ...
0 Comments, 200 Views,
15 Votes
,4.20 Score
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Come on ladies...get safe! 4/7/2005
Why are ladies meeting just any guy without running them
through the proper obstacle course? If the guy is aggressive
on the internet chances are he is ten times worse in person.
Always meet during the day first. I know how much everyone
likes to meet for a drink at night but in the dark is when most
crimes occur. Have a cell phone, meet in a public area, and
look for red flags before ...
3 Comments, 223 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Don't give out much Info 3/22/2005
I have found that generally on this site most men are liers
to some extent. I assume a lot of women do this also but why
lie about who you are of if you are married? You will be found
out and it just makes people mad for no reason. Also noticed
guys like to say sure lets meet in public then turn around
and say where do you live? DON'T TELL THEM!!!!! Most
men are just curious but some can be ...
1 Comments, 152 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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any advice? 3/19/2005
i recently recieved an email from a couple on this site.
a man told me i had permission to fuck his wife.i emailed
him back about some irregulaitites in his email and he then
emailed me back with very plausible explainations. i am
thinking about meeting with this couple. although i am
able to take care of myself in most any situation i would
like to know if anyone has any particular advice ...
5 Comments, 469 Views,
16 Votes
,3.72 Score
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Two sides of the coin. 3/3/2005
I´ve read alot of the articles here about dating safety, and
to add, even though there are a-holes out there, I myself
am one, I do not want a persons home number or home address
or even go to their house just from the first email I receive
from them.Myself, I would feel uncomfortable going to
someones house that I just met.I tried it once, and we had
are fun, dont get me wrong, but I ...
1 Comments, 242 Views,
23 Votes
,3.13 Score
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What do you do as precautions? 2/26/2005
I mostly won't meet people unless we agree on a place
where there are lots of people areound, such as the college
campus. What about the rest of you?
0 Comments, 200 Views,
15 Votes
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Safety First 1/27/2005
Ok ladies listen up and same goes for you men as well. I'm
been meeting people online for over 5 years now and there
is no thing that's actually saved my life once.
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Starters NEVER give out your home phone number until after
you meet and get to know the person off line. Gie them your
cel phone number only. There are too many ways of people
finding your home addy, place of ...
8 Comments, 1131 Views,
103 Votes
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Genuine or Not? 1/27/2005
How can you be sure to who is behind a profile on AdultFriendFinder?
Sure there are more genuine females/males/couples than
there are fake, but how can you separate the bad apples from
the good ones?
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I think that the adult verification is a great idea, but
to some it could seem a little off-putting/time consuming
having to print out the form and fill in all the details then ...
5 Comments, 348 Views,
25 Votes
,3.24 Score
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Password Protected 1/25/2005
When meeting for the first time, it's always best to
meet in a very public place. I usually try to find a restaurant,
bar, even a shopping mall where I know someone who works
there. That way, if trouble is brewing you can always run
to them for help. Another thing that works really well is
using a trustly old password approach. Make sure you've
told someone where you are going. Dial ...
1 Comments, 173 Views,
20 Votes
,4.78 Score
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what can we do better 1/21/2005
as men what can we talk about during a conversation at a bar
to entice your interests more?
1 Comments, 146 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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how safe is this site 1/18/2005
I am curious have all of the encounters on this site been
safe. Has anyone had a frightening encounter and is there
any precautions I should take?
3 Comments, 379 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Condom Breaking 1/18/2005
How can you tell if your condom might have had a little tear
in it, even if you can't see it?
2 Comments, 325 Views,
11 Votes
,0.36 Score
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On line dating and how to do it safely 1/16/2005
I'm a new member to this web page. What I want too know
how safe do you think it is to meet someone you are writing
over the web pages. The way I see it is read the profiles and
always go down to the QUESTION that asks HAVE YOU BEEN TRUTHFUL
and if they answered YES then read though the rest of the
questions that they answered then talk to them on line for
about 2 weeks before meeting. You ...
0 Comments, 124 Views,
10 Votes
,2.59 Score
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Online Dating Dilemma: Dishing Out Rejection 1/16/2005
The Internet is a strange place, and what seems abnormal
for in-person experiences is completely common on the
Internet. Notice that the word is common, not polite or
considerate.
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You need to know how to dish out rejection in an appropriate
way. As with real life, you must do it quickly – and with a
modicum of kindness, if possible. Granted, for some people,
a more ...
1 Comments, 423 Views,
31 Votes
,4.29 Score
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if you only knew... 1/16/2005
If you only knew that almost 83% of the people on this site
is the same person would that make a difference. Her name
is Mildred Sassity. She's 53 and a librarian in Cedar
Rapids. In her spare time, she assumes the mantle of about
3, 456 different profiles and returns e-mails and makes
up these great profiles. So don't worry, you will probably
never meet Mildred anyway.
2 Comments, 448 Views,
23 Votes
,3.36 Score
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Married, , wonderful husband but still looking 1/14/2005
I am married, with a wonderful husband, who does everything
for me, he will even kiss the ground where I walk on, but when
it comes to sex, he always reached climax before I can even
get geared up. And then he is done, go to sleep and not even
bothering how I feel. If this happens once or twice fine,
but not all the time. He does not communicate with me much,
talks more to the than to me, ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
104 Votes
,8.42 Score
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Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!! 1/14/2005
It's always the beautiful ONES
Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have
given me a warning or something. It's going on week
FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time
I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to.
She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene
at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was
about two ...
2 Comments, 277 Views,
20 Votes
,1.21 Score
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Ladies BEWARE of the Sexual Preditor! 1/14/2005
This is for the ladies on this site....
Please be safe and get to know someone well by email and phone
before you go out with them....
Case in point...Beware of DarylJon54....he is a sexual
preditor of the slickest kind. He will romance you with
hot lusty emails....and is VERY agressive about wanting
to make passionate love to you....he will make a date of
passion with you...and BAM!! ...
17 Comments, 668 Views,
35 Votes
,1.39 Score
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try new things.... 1/14/2005
I use to use a .357 for dating safety. That big bad boy could
drop a BBW at 75 feet. Dead in her tracks. But lately with
the new age women, I find that a taser jock strap works best.
If they want to try anything out of line, especially before
I've had a chance to ask them if they know our Lord and
Savior Jesus Christ, then I'll juice my crotch and
give 'em quite the shock. Depending on how ...
3 Comments, 171 Views,
16 Votes
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the first date first meeting 1/4/2005
when you have talked to someone online and are ready to meet
in person. meet in a public place. if they dont want to then
drop them quick. they are hiding something.
get their phone number and call it. tell them you are letting
a friend have it and his name.
try to meet somewhere where you know someone so they will
be able to keep on eye on you to see you are okay. introduce
your date ...
1 Comments, 179 Views,
33 Votes
,5.63 Score
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public 1/4/2005
Definalty a public place that you are familliar with on
the firstdate..it make you feel more secure.
Always take ur own car..this can be akward because of the
well no need to take 2 cars and waste gas or add more crap to
the air..
And well if you feel any pressure BOUNCE on home
1 Comments, 125 Views,
22 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Letting Friends Know 1/3/2005
I usually let at least three friends know when I'm going
to meet an online friend. I tell each one to call me at a different
time within a hour to two hour time frame.
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This way if things go well, I'm alone. And if things
don't go too well, I can have a drink and think about
what could have been done differently.
0 Comments, 133 Views,
9 Votes
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