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OMGxoxoxo 70M
122 posts
12/9/2018 7:39 pm

Whoever is critical of your body must be jealous!! Besides, people need to vent!


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
12/9/2018 8:54 pm

First I would like to offer you a hug. No one needs the shit you have had to deal with regarding someone criticizing your body or any part of yourself really. No one is perfect and we are all just trying to find a little happiness. I would hate to be a spreader of doom and gloom via criticism. I guess I am just too politically correct and empathetic. I live by the motto of treating others as I would like to be treated. Not that I am religious but the phrase "There but for the Grace of God go I, " goes through my head. Counting one's blessings, which I must admit I shortchange myself or overlook many, is something that a secure person should aspire to. Okay, enough philosophy. LOL You know that someone who puts down other people is just not nice. They are a bully. Is pointing out someone is a bully being a bully? LOL

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


rayholl 68M/51F
35 posts
12/10/2018 12:32 am

Your body is beautiful,hot and sexy....Thank you for sharing


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/10/2018 3:29 am

For the inappropriate way I vented my feelings in my previous blog, I would like to apologize if I offended...... Why would you apologize? Why would you think expressing yourself [perhaps angrily] is inappropriate? If someone gets offended by that? So what? They are merely having a little whine. Means nothing.

I had no intention of spreading the toxicity.... Why not? If you hold toxic feelings in, you become toxic and this only weakens your body.

I don't know what the person said about your body, but since you've gone public with your image, you're going to get remarks you may not like. Let it go or tell them off.


Shots30 48M
2312 posts
12/10/2018 6:01 am

I do find it terrible on here how people like to incite others through the blogs. I saw a huge mess before between folks and it was just petty and silly.

All that is important is that you know you are beautiful and to feel free to share your body, thoughts and ideas freely as that is what this blog is about. An outlet for our sexual (and sometimes not so sexual) thinking. They can appreciate it or they can move on.

It's hard not to react sometimes, we all do it. Sometimes it does have to happen. It's a new work week and let's have some sexy fun!

Cheers!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/10/2018 6:29 am

Why are you referring to yourself as a "Real woman"...Are you trying to say you're not a man pretending to be a woman....you know.. since there is so much concern regarding fake profiles.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/11/2018 4:06 am

    Quoting  :

I apologized because I do not like conflict or anger and was disappointed in myself for not reacting in a more rational manner. .... Most everyone doesn't like conflict and anger.... but you are human, you have nothing to apologize for. If someone is offended by an emotional passionate outburst of anger [or whatever], that would that persons problem , not yours.

Toxicity - poison. It poisons me, not the other person.... It only poisons you if you hold it in. ....Look at the bloggers on here, or just about anywhere. They journalize publicly, getting their feelings out. If lots of them were to hold in these feelings, I'm quite sure most would self destruct. ... Who knows... they may anyway. Hopefully they have actual people they can talk to for support.

I have no intention of living a life of intolerance, anger or hate. .... That's fine... but because "Something is", doesn't mean you have to love it, or tolerate or accept it. You can feel about "Something" anyway you like.

Toxicity is much like pouring gasoline on a fire and expecting it to kill the flame..... Not really.... more like eating red peppers expecting that to sooth your stomach. If you allow society to tell you what you should love, what you should tolerate, what you should accept... and you are not really on board.... then you're eating a whole mess load of red peppers.

Back in the 60s and 70s people could set up soapboxes on campus and preach about something that they were against, or they thought need to change.... that was good...... but now if someone does that, they risk being expelled or arrested. ....this is wrong.

You want to voice/write your concern about something? Passionately? Angrily? Go ahead. You have a Constitutional right to do so.

If someone is offended? Not your concern.


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